If you are looking for her materials to improve your love life, remember her golden rule: By understanding the neurotransmitters at play—dopamine for excitement and oxytocin for bonding—you can stop guessing and start understanding the "why" behind your dating successes and failures.

When men embrace the seeker role with respect (without entitlement), and women embrace the chooser role with clarity (without games), dating stops being a battlefield and becomes a dance.

Driven by dopamine, which creates an addictive feeling of craving for the other person.